3 Great Tips And Advice For Keeping A Long Distance Relationship ( LDR) Alive

Long Distance Love

      Long distance relationship (LDR) can be very challenging. Today, many couples are forced to make difficult choices to stay apart for a long period of time. It can be challenging to maintain the romance and love when you are 100 miles or more away from each other. Of course, there are many interesting things you can do when your partner visits you and you like: wine tasting, hiking, going out to dinner or to see a fantastic show. In this article i will give you tips and advice about  what you can do to keep the romance alive when you and your man or woman are not together  for a long time.

             3 Great Tips And  Advice  For  Keeping  A  Long  Distance Relationship  Alive 

                         

•      (1)  Never  rely on communication alone . It can be hard to talk on the phone all the time, and honestly it can get boring. The real fact is if you keep talking to the same person  every day, it will get to a certain point where you will feel  depressed, no matter how in love you are with him or her. The best way to communicate without really feeling drained or depressed from constantly talking on the phone is  to make sure that you keep in contact with several  other ways like : phone, IM, text and emails. Creating a variety of way to stay in contact with your partner, you help create a more simple way for both of you to communicate throughout the day without feeling exhausted. You could even write a love letter and paste it in the mail just for fun and surprise.

•       (2)  Make a choice. Even when you're away from each other, you can still have a date night. You can rent the same movie, get a glass of wine, and then watch the movie  at the same time. At the beginning of the movie, you can send a chat messages or IM to your partner throughout the film and talk about it as if you were in one room and watch it together. You can also take one night to make a simple dinner, get on the webcam and eat  together .Yes, you might think it is silly, but these special dates, ideas and tips  can really help keep  your  Ldr  alive. 

• .       (3)   Plan visits. Before you start your long distance relationship, you should talk with your partner about how often you will visit each other. Discuss the factors that will play a role in how often you can visit each other like monthly or weekly schedules. It is also important to listen to your lover and measure the time that they can do without seeing you. Once you have had a thorough discussion then create a set plan so you both know what to expect; you will see each other every two weeks or once a month? If you plan ahead there will be no surprises, because you have already established guidelines for your relationship. If you have a schedule set in place, both of you should make sure that you organize your life so you can spend your time together during your visit.
    

Make it work. In order to make your long distance relationship to work, you must be committed and dedicated  to making it work. If both of you are not 100% dedicated to your relationship, then it is less likely to succeed. It takes a lot of time, energy and love to be able to survive the distance.