About Communication And Distance Relationship (LDR)

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    Long distance relationship also known as LDR  is no different from a regular relationship in the sense that any relationship requires a lot of effort, excellent communications, patience, sacrifice, compromise and understanding. However, you will have to work harder to maintain communication and also stay focused on your relationship so that it won’t affect your desire to be with each other

     Remember that "absence makes love grow stronger." It is indeed true that feelings and desire are magnified when one is separated from their loved ones making the heart beat together as one.

    Communicating by phone, email or instant messaging can sometimes become very Tedious. Do not forget that there are other ways to communicate and share your time together! You can use the internet and look for activities that you could do together despite the distance. This will reduce the pressure you sometimes feel when you are alone.

    When one partner is always busier than the other, it usually creates big problems in a distance relationship. If this is the case in your LDR relationship, it is very important to maintain communication. If you have a very busy schedule, tells your partner Ahead of time, for example, you can tell him/her  that you will be doing a lot of overtime at work and that you will have a very little free time. If you're not really busy but your partner is, take the opportunity to find a new passion for yourself, e.g.  new hobbies, play sports, read a book, etc.. It is very important that you are both flexible.

    Whatever the length of your separation, it is very important that you consider the future and that you talk about what you will do when both of you are back together. Otherwise, you  are wasting  a lot of opportunity  and  also you will encourage  the  long-distance relationship(LDR) even more, also remember  even  if the communication between you and your partner  is very good,  it might still be very difficult to move suddenly to a regular or  normal  relationship at once. You should both think about a plan when you find yourself together for good. This will motivate you to try harder and to maintain a strong bond.